As someone who has been using male masturbators for decades, I’ve tried nearly every type you can imagine — manual strokers, electric masturbators, slow-play models, intense stimulation cups, you name it. Every time a new model hits the market, I’m usually among the first to test it.
Today, I’ll share my experience and give you the most detailed guide on how to choose a masturbator, and whether you really need to worry about the so-called “oily problem.”
1. There’s No “One-Size-Fits-All” Masturbator
The biggest mistake beginners make is believing that one masturbator can please everyone. That’s simply not true. Pleasure is highly individual.
👉 What feels amazing for one person may not work for another.
👉 Asking a seller “which toy is best for me?” is basically telling them, “I’m a total newbie, sell me whatever you want.”
And guess what? Many sellers will push the product with the highest profit margin, not the one that fits you best. That’s why choosing a reliable store or brand is already half the battle won.
2. The Truth About the “Oily” Issue in TPE Toys
Most male masturbators are made from TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer). During production, mineral oil is added to make the toy softer. The softer the toy, the more likely it is to “sweat” a little oil over time.
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Harder material = less oil
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Softer material = more oil
But here’s the truth: oil release is perfectly normal and does not affect your experience or safety if you clean and maintain the toy properly.
In fact, some of the softest, jelly-like strokers I’ve used felt incredibly realistic, and the oiling was barely noticeable.
The idea that “less oil = better quality” is simply a marketing gimmick. Some brands even make super hard, stone-like toys just to achieve “zero oil.” But guess what? They feel awful to use.
3. Comfort Matters More Than Oil
When it comes to sex toys, comfort and stimulation are everything. A soft, flexible masturbator almost always delivers a better experience than a rigid one — even if it produces a bit of oil.
So don’t let the “oil issue” distract you. It’s comfort and sensation that truly matter.